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The topic everyone loves to hate talking about. Ex boyfriends are sometimes like leaches in which you sometimes can’t get them off of you or when you can, You sometimes cant stop thinking about them. Yes, we have all been through it. Whether it be, crazy ex boyfriends to clingy ex boyfriends to cheating ex boyfriends and even to boring ex boyfriends..WE’VE ALL BEEN THROUGH IT. One thing I couldn’t help but notice about ex boyfriends is the fact that no matter what you go through, good or bad, there will always be memories that you can’t erase. I’m almost sure every girl, including myself, have dealt with/are dealing with an ex boyfriend right now. So in three words I will share with you a little secret. JUST FUCKING STOP.
They are EX boyfriends for a reason. There’s a reason it never worked out! Yeah sometimes break ups are a huge mistake but if you guys are not back together then find another guy. When you start talking to your ex again, it reintroduces old feelings for either a brief time or a long time and then you start remembering when you first met, when you guys first had sex, when your dad caught him sneaking into your bedroom etc.. You’re now in a slump because you don’t know whether or not you should try to make things work again or if you should just forget about it as a whole. Ex boyfriends are a thing of the past and if your intentions are more or less to rekindle your relationship, by all means do as you please.
Rekindling a relationship with your ex is like taking a nice, hot, steamy shower and getting out feeling refreshed ONLY to put the same dirty pair of underwear back on. Ex’s are not meant to rinse and repeat. As cliche as is sounds there are far too many people in the world for you to re date those you once had a connection with.
Ex’s can be fun if you’re looking for a fuck buddy when ever you’re feeling lonely or if you need someone to text through out the day to make you feel special but other than that what else are they good for? I’m not saying that every single relationship restarted with an ex ends up bad, but if it ended bad the first time don’t expect things to be entirely different the next time. Things just don’t happen that way.
Before you decide to start talking to an ex again. THINK. Think about if all you need is just sex late at night. Think about if all you need is someone to make you feel special. Think about if all you need is a christmas gift or someone to kiss at midnight on new years eve. Think about if whether or not you’re not getting the guy you want and now you just need to get back with being comfortable. NOW THINK. Is this absolutely, Positively, 100 percent what you want? Well you’ll never know because who is ever sure of anything these days.
So I bet everyone is excited that a new semester at college has approached. Most of you excited to start your classes while others like me are excited to check out potential hot guys who can be your Aaron Samuels for math class because lets get one thing straight, math is not my thing. Here’s some tips to get you along this semester..
GO TO THE GYM
Yeah now I know what you’re thinking…I wish I could just eat anything I want and not gain a single pound. Well don’t we all. But things don’t work that way. Get your ass to the gym at least 3 times out of the week, because lets be real, all of that binge drinking you’re doing is not making you any skinnier and who doesn’t want to look good in a really tight dress?! Yeah, I know we all have things we’re doing through out the day, but it only takes 30 minutes to work up a sweat so that you’re not wishing you had a different body. I can’t stress this enough. I HATE WHEN GIRLS COMPLAIN ABOUT THEIR BODY BUT AREN’T WILLING TO PUT IT THROUGH HELL TO GET TO THE BODY THEY WANT!!!! So stop complaining and make it happen. Oh and ladies just one more word of advice: If your hair and makeup still look nice, you’re NOT doing it right.
GET OUT AND ENJOY YOURSELF
This is a given. Now granted, everyone isn’t an awesome, partying, fun, binge drinking girl like myself but so what. You have classes 4-5 days a week, why not take two days off to get out and have fun with your friends. You don’t HAVE to party, but don’t stay stuck in your room studying Friday and Saturday Get out and about. Hit up an on campus event, have sex with a guy you like, go to the movies, do yoga I don’t care just do something to get your mind off of things and most of all have fun while you’re at it.
Yes, college students are most known for drinking and partying. But this is not a damn 4 year vacation. You’re actually paying to be here, paying for a good education, paying to hopefully not flip burgers at McDonalds after you graduate. Get your shit together if it isn’t already. Although a 4.0 is nice, you don’t have to achieve it but having an attractive GPA does open the doors for much more opportunities after you graduate! So yeah, go out and have fun but also remember that you must work hard in order to play hard! Good luck and may the exam/test curve be in your favor.
RE-EVALUATE YOUR FRIENDSHIPS
QUALITY OVER QUANTITY! Is having a lot of friends still an actual thing? If so, you should probably still be in high school. There are a ton of people in college so that you don’t need to stick around fake friends. Look around you and decide if the people you call friends are your actual friend. If they talk shit with you, they’ll probably talk shit on you. You don’t need to surround yourself with people who are bringing you down. 1 real friend is so much better than a bunch of fake friends. Choose wisely!
Hi everyone, I’m April. For starters, I don’t know shit about blogging, so I apologize in advance if my content comes off as sloppy. Anywho, I’m a 19 year old sophomore in college who’s taking up political science as a major. So here’s the story.Today I woke up from a nap and had a huge epiphany to make a blog. Now this blog is designed for laughs and entertainment, but to also provide advice along the way. I decided to create it because girls go through a lot of shit and not just with dealing with guys. So ladies all of your questions and situations and complaints and thoughts are answered here! I hope you guys enjoy!